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Originally Posted by midnightplayer  I being a married man playing alone, (my wife is not willing to engage in the lifestyle), is as concerned as a married couple. I feel relatively safe in a bi, couple relationship and not so comfortable playing with males in a couple situation where the male goes off and has mm play. |
Here's the thing about sexual history, you really can't be sure of what someone tells you. Many folks will be very honest here-but the extreme cases won't be.
That is one reason why stuff like testing and condoms that take this out of the realm of opinion is valuable.