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Originally Posted by 3sumff  The thought of polyamory wasn't even considered, but I see what you are saying. Not sure about that though. Friends with benefits sound good. However, being in the lifestyle and trying to have friends was not easy. It seemed as if the couple we played with "friends with benefit." All they wanted to do was get together to have sex. Not to complain or anything, but we aren't the hardcore swingers who want to swap every time we get together. Just hang out and laughs, friendship and a comfort of playing together when the mood struck. |
Aha, now I see what you're getting at . . . I've been following this thread, and my initial response would have been much the same as Lee's (If you don't enjoy it, take a break/do something else).
Now, I'd say I can understand where you're coming from. Mr. Sweet and I have been blessed to find a group of friends like this. For this reason, we really enjoy going to our local meet & greets. Some nights, it's just enjoying some drinks, laughs, and dancing. Others, we might end up at an after-party orgy. It's all up to us.
Hopefully, you'll find that balance too. In the meantime, enjoy each other and keep your options open.
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