[midnightplayer]

I being a married man playing alone, (my wife is not willing to engage in the lifestyle), is as concerned as a married couple. I feel relatively safe in a bi, couple relationship and not so comfortable playing with males in a couple situation where the male goes off and has mm play. This is a worry, because bi and gay men tend to go to book/video shops, bath houses, and porn movies houses for casual, anomomus sex with men they don't know and have not understanding of their background. Couples tend to be more concerned about whow they get naked with and make reasonably sure their playmates are careful.