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Originally Posted by myopenbook  People often ask me about how to find interested couples if they themselves don't have a desire to go to swingers clubs, events, etc., and don't necessarily feel comfortable looking online. How and where does one find partners without freaking anybody out or coming off as some sort of creep or predator?
Thanks so much!
Best,
Jenny Block
Author of "Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage" |
Why do you ask? I find it a bit strange that someone who's written a book of the above title would need to ask where swingers would look to find others to play with.
But I like to give others the benefit of the doubt, so assuming you really don't know and would like to find out for your own interests . . .
Many swingers find searching for playmates over the internet a chore. Let's face it, there are a lot of predators, trolls, and other assorted undesirables that revel in the anonymity of the internet.
That leaves clubs, parties, and meet & greets. For someone genuinely interested in the lifestyle, there is no need to feel like a predator. The other folks at these events are there for the same reason you are.
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