Re: d,d free There are risks, no doubts about it. The more partners you have, the higher your risks for contracting STDs. Tests, condoms, and being selective about partners may help lower the risks, but they are not eliminated.
It's great that you and your wife are talking about these concerns. Communication is key in swinging, and hopefully, you'll be able to reach a consensus on what risks you're willing to accept.
There are many people on the board who've swung for years and never had so much as a cold. We hope to be among them some day (we've been at it for less than a year).
Best of luck to ya'll,
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