The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Singles, if you had to choose a Relationship or Swinging, which would you choose?

cocpl2007 · 07-01-2008, 08:15 AM

We both are very much the long term relationship types.

We’ve been married 34 and 28 years respectively, with six of those being to each other. I was pretty active in the lifestyle prior to becoming single, once single, I surprised myself by not being attracted to the lifestyle any longer. Also the attraction of the gentleman’s clubs lost their appeal. The discovery that window shopping was no longer enjoyable if there wasn’t someone to go home with/to was equally enlightening. Those clubs were an exercise in frustration rather than entertainment.

Nice thread, Julie.

07-01-2008, 08:15 AM	#13 (permalink)
cocpl2007 Here to play Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 289 Location: Colorado Status: Couple SLS Name:cocpl2007	Re: Singles, if you had to choose a Relationship or Swinging, which would you choose? We both are very much the long term relationship types. We’ve been married 34 and 28 years respectively, with six of those being to each other. I was pretty active in the lifestyle prior to becoming single, once single, I surprised myself by not being attracted to the lifestyle any longer. Also the attraction of the gentleman’s clubs lost their appeal. The discovery that window shopping was no longer enjoyable if there wasn’t someone to go home with/to was equally enlightening. Those clubs were an exercise in frustration rather than entertainment. Nice thread, Julie.