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Old 07-01-2008, 04:48 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: My wife is so close to saying "yes" to swinging

Hi and good luck to you in getting your and your wifes wishes fulfilled. Some may say, "Maybe she was just joking" and that's it. But I would think an adults responce to this situation if confronted would be saying "I didn't mean it" would be a more sincere way in closing the door. Saying, "Just Joking" leaves the doors open about 1/2 way.

My point is proceed with caution, if you get pushy that door is going to get slammed in your face. Mention it ocassionally (maybe every couple of weeks) just to keep the subject fresh...then if you do not get positive responces after a month or two, drop the subject all together.

I'm sure the cat's curiosity will wonder why the mouse doesn't speak of it any more....especially if the cat is considering fullfilling the mouses wishes....and the cat's own.

Then you wait, until the cat's curios fantasy overwhelms and the cat has to bring up the subject.

Then the mouse replies....would you like some cheese?
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