Well, I can say we have had a quite a few great swinging experiences. Unfortunately, those were mixed in with a lot of mediocre experiences. The only thing I can tell you for certain is, not one of those experiences did we know was going to be great, or not so great, before we actually had them. In other words, they were all a surprise, after the fact.
So, I doubt you will ever find "*it*" by looking for it. The only way you will find "*it*" is by taking the plunge. If you get the right couple/single, you will be sitting there in the after glow saying, "wow, that was it".
