[NightGoddess]

Sakaysi,
I think you should just follow your instincts and be yourself. If that means getting her number and leaving her a 'voice mail, then go ahead. If getting her address and dropping a card and small bouquet with a note (with your number) --- then do so!
I know it's hard to imagine what to expect when you are quite a bit younger than the woman.....but at the same time, being authentically yourself is the nicest way to break the ice. It's something you can't fake, and will help her to get to know the real you.

Is it possible you might want a more-than-sex relationship?

Also, not working in the same Hospital is actually a plus!
I've met people I'd be attracted to if I weren't working at the same Hospital...the gossip-mill is alive and well. Out of respect for anyone I work with, I'd hesitate before seeing them socially. If the chemistry, or anything else goes awry, it can be akward afterwards when you run into them...see what I mean?
So I encourage you to be persistent. And don't be afraid of pushing your comfort zone and ask the hard question: if she turns down a date, or an opportunity for coffee, be brave. Ask her if she is not dating at this time....or if she means she is not interested. Sometimes we single ladies need time to think about someone who asks us for a date. I don't know what that's about, but it is true for me.
Keep in mind that if she doesn't want you as a 'boyfriend'....she may still be open to the idea of developing a friendship. Friends are so important! And good friends are something that take time and effort to develop.
If she is the kind of woman you are looking for, your age won't make a shred of difference.
---It is wonderful to meet men who are emotionally and intellectually mature! It is refreshing to be recognized as wiser, experienced, and desireable.
I will say (as an older woman), I worry about what a younger man's parents would think about a relationship. They might dislike the fact that a woman my age could not give them grandchildren. But it it's not an issue for you, it shouldn't be for your lady friend....or your folks.
I hope this has been helpful and supportive.
I wish you the best of luck!
Keep us posted, you express yourself very well. Can't imagine she would turn you down!
--And a small bouquet is a charming idea.

Kajikurai (sp?) --I love the quote!