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ktimephoenix · 06-30-2008, 08:26 PM

Still a noob, but here's what i've learnt so far.

I know it's hard (and suffered this myself), but don't go out thinking of getting sex, go out to have fun. sex is a bonus. i suffered ALOT because i put too much pressure on myself.

Also always be mindful of your partners boundaries. it's easy to get "caught up in the moment", but your relationship is far more important than lust.

06-30-2008, 08:26 PM	#8 (permalink)
ktimephoenix Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 209 Location: Adelaide Australia Status: Couple	Re: What is the most important thing you've learned? Still a noob, but here's what i've learnt so far. I know it's hard (and suffered this myself), but don't go out thinking of getting sex, go out to have fun. sex is a bonus. i suffered ALOT because i put too much pressure on myself. Also always be mindful of your partners boundaries. it's easy to get "caught up in the moment", but your relationship is far more important than lust.