[bendmeovernow]

well i'd say the cpl would be better for the reasons that you like there personalities and such like that. you can't always tell what a person will look like really online and heck... i meet a single guy this last week that i though wasn't all that great, hot looking guy and when he walked into the house party i was floored at how attractive i found him. so don't judge by just pics. age .... hell i love my older playmates, i'm 29 and i have a guy or two that's almost or 20 yrs older and i love the playtime with them.. so don't go by age. the single guy.... you don't know and can't always tell if they are single or cheating on a spouse. i try my best to find out if they are doing just that and won't see them. it's just a desaster waiting to happen... so i'd stay away from that as well. singles are fun if you can trust they are single. so my vote is to meet the cpl for dinner and see if it turns into a night cap and playtime... make sure they know it can be just dinner or that if your comfortable with them it can be more. any good swinging cpl understands that and will respect that. if nothing else you might have new friends not to play with but more friends is always good.