This is sex wright ! Who is holding who back here ?
You both said you found THE ONES and also found a reason not to.
Just our experience. The first couple we played with were not the one and only almighty sparks of life. I'm not cutting them down by any means, they were compatible. We liked them. We felt comfortable and safe. We played and never will we forget any moment of that evening. The sparks that flew were between Mrs Fun and I. We were very happy with our choice. Honestly, I don't think we were the one and only for them either.... We all still had a great time. We wanted to see how we felt after having sex with different people. They gave us the opportunity to feel that. We will never forget them for that night. The truth is who we thought were going to be the best of our choice, weren't.
Are you sure you not missing the ones you should be with, waiting on the impossible one ? Take your time by all means, as anyone should. But if your both ready to experience something like this together..... compatibility and convenience also play a big part. Then when you know and feel comfortable doing this... let the sparks fly when it may.... and it will.
As far as who to chose ? We did both... We went with a couple first then a single male. It worked for us. That was how convience played into it for us
