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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  I think an email following meeting a couple (or playing with them) is ALWAYS appropriate. I wouldn't go so far as to right away say "thanks for the fuck but we don't want to do it again" but I would just send an email letting them know that you enjoyed it and thank them for popping your cherry (so to speak) and leave it at that. Then it is in their court and if they write back wanting to get together again then you can let them know that you really didn't feel like everyone clicked on a sexual level but you would definately be open to friendship. I will say from experience that rarely is the other couple open to friendship when you've just turned them down for sex. |
As always, Julie gives great advice. Our first couple were newbies too, so it was the blind leading the blind. Not surprisingly, it didn't work out exactly as planned. We were interested in maintaining casual contact with them just as friends, but when we tried to do that the conversation usually turned into trying to get us interested in a do-over, which we just weren't up for. Once we made that obvious, contact was lost.