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notaswingeryet · 06-30-2008, 01:41 PM

This thread made me think of the old adage "If momma's not happy ain't nobody happy". But is that fair? Even though we don't swing, I am allways trying to lean the "balance of happy" in my wife's favor. Her happiness makes me happy. I'm not going to get upset abought the fact that she had multiple orgasm and then grabbed a vibe after, whereas I only had one and haven't quite got my breath back yet. The fact that she's happy is in itself an ego boosting thought. Fair is what works for you. If the swinger police have to keep track of who did what to whom, and balance the happy load, would it be fun anymore?

06-30-2008, 01:41 PM	#11 (permalink)
notaswingeryet Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 126 Location: florida Status: couple	Re: Fairness in swinging and in sex.... This thread made me think of the old adage "If momma's not happy ain't nobody happy". But is that fair? Even though we don't swing, I am allways trying to lean the "balance of happy" in my wife's favor. Her happiness makes me happy. I'm not going to get upset abought the fact that she had multiple orgasm and then grabbed a vibe after, whereas I only had one and haven't quite got my breath back yet. The fact that she's happy is in itself an ego boosting thought. Fair is what works for you. If the swinger police have to keep track of who did what to whom, and balance the happy load, would it be fun anymore?