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Originally Posted by LFM2  On your profile, it states you're 22. Boy, do I remember that age! I really didn't care to care to give blowjobs to ANYONE at that age -- mostly because it was never reciprocated or because guys that age had the impatience to NOT let me lick, suck and just enjoy myself. They'd often grab me by the back of my head forcing my face into their crotch. I even had one guy grab my ears like they were handles and start pumping away. He thought he was sexy and a stud. (He really wasn't) That is all such a no-no. 
Out of curiosity, have you asked your wife "WHY" she hates giving head? |
I totally agree! Even when I was younger, giving head seemed like a power trip for me...only instead of me carrying the power (to please), the young, dumb, "stud" used it as a way to subjugate or force his will. This is such a huge turn-off. Now that I've got a relationship with a man who doesn't mind (in fact loves) me taking over and doing my thing, I dig having him lay back and let me take my time. Sometimes, he "guides" me, but there's no pushing, and his hands on the back of head in my hair just kind of "going along for the ride" actually get me a little worked up. He just uses his hands as a que for what he wants and when he's getting more excited. Then, I have the power to take it back down a notch or two if I choose. I love to make him cum this way because it's all about me and my ability to please the man I love...and it's erotic that he allows himself to be "vulnerable" to me in this way.
I, however, have never enjoyed the taste of cum and don't prefer to swallow. It doesn't mean I won't or that I don't have the option of getting up to spit it out, get a glass of water and come back for a little more fun! I know for some girls who don't like to swallow, it's enough to make them never want to do it at all. I gave up doing it all for awhile because I didn't want to offend my partners. Could be your gal's issue, too. Also, some guy's seem to want it all the time. I want to do it when I want to do it. It has to be my idea or I don't like it at all. You should talk to your gal about why she doesn't like it. Every conversation I've ever had with my hubby about sex has usually led us to trying something new or finding ways to add it to our sexual repertoire...and it usually gets us in the bed right away!
