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arvcpl · 06-30-2008, 12:42 PM

I think the absolute most important thing is swinging is to put your partner and the relationship first and above all else. Everything should be based on the relationship and for the relationship. If you are ever faced with a decision the first questions should be, will this help "US" or will it hurt "US?" The second one person starts doing things that are all about themselves as an individual then pain and drama and problems are right around the corner.

06-30-2008, 12:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
arvcpl Has Left the Building Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 172 Location: Arvada, co Status: couple	Re: What is the most important thing you've learned? I think the absolute most important thing is swinging is to put your partner and the relationship first and above all else. Everything should be based on the relationship and for the relationship. If you are ever faced with a decision the first questions should be, will this help "US" or will it hurt "US?" The second one person starts doing things that are all about themselves as an individual then pain and drama and problems are right around the corner.