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***JustAskJulie*** · 06-30-2008, 12:22 PM

I think an email following meeting a couple (or playing with them) is ALWAYS appropriate. I wouldn't go so far as to right away say "thanks for the fuck but we don't want to do it again" but I would just send an email letting them know that you enjoyed it and thank them for popping your cherry (so to speak) and leave it at that. Then it is in their court and if they write back wanting to get together again then you can let them know that you really didn't feel like everyone clicked on a sexual level but you would definately be open to friendship. I will say from experience that rarely is the other couple open to friendship when you've just turned them down for sex.

06-30-2008, 12:22 PM	#7 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: What to do after the first full swap? I think an email following meeting a couple (or playing with them) is ALWAYS appropriate. I wouldn't go so far as to right away say "thanks for the fuck but we don't want to do it again" but I would just send an email letting them know that you enjoyed it and thank them for popping your cherry (so to speak) and leave it at that. Then it is in their court and if they write back wanting to get together again then you can let them know that you really didn't feel like everyone clicked on a sexual level but you would definately be open to friendship. I will say from experience that rarely is the other couple open to friendship when you've just turned them down for sex.