[JustAskJulie]

I would meet with them both seperately in a vanilla atmosphere and see who clicks. In the end, if they both click the only real choice is which one to go with first, in that case the one that clicks the best.

Along the lines of what Teresa said, as well, if you are not at all attracted to someone physically in the end it is going to make it a little difficult to have sex with them. That said, two things... don't base lack of physical attraction completely on a picture. Some people just don't take good pictures and second, sometimes when you meet people their personality may be so great that it may overcome in deficit they have in the looks dept.

So get out there and meet them, until you do that, you'll never know!