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Originally Posted by ktimephoenix  well Mrs P and He didn't really have the chemistry (in the bedroom)that I had with Her, so playing with them again probably isn't on the cards again.
we just felt (maybe wrongfully) that just because we may not want to have sex with them was no reason not to talk to them. |
I think it is common courtesy to send an email regardless of whether you want to meet again or not. There is no need to go into detail, a simple "Thank you for the evening but I don't think we are compatible" will suffice. Was the lack of "chemistry" a real deal breaker for your wife or could it have been just an off night for the guy. As you may have read in other threads here it is very rare to find 4 people that are very compatible with one another. It's not uncommon to find that one partner has a better time than the other and unless it's totally one sided maybe you would be willing to give it another try and see what happens. Don't forget that men were not born knowing how to please every woman and your wife needs to speak up if there is something that he is not doing right.