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N&G · 06-30-2008, 10:02 AM

It sounds like you are trying to turn something simple into something complicated. Just ask them if they would like to get together again. Unless there is some reason that you DON'T want to have sex with them again the assumption is that you want to. Isn't that why you met them in the first place? Don't be too upset if they tell you they aren't interested or ignore your emails. Even if everybody seemed to have a great time you can't get inside their heads and it doesn't mean that there was anything wrong with you.

06-30-2008, 10:02 AM	#3 (permalink)
N&G Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 116 Location: Northern New Jersey Status: Couple	Re: What to do after the first full swap? It sounds like you are trying to turn something simple into something complicated. Just ask them if they would like to get together again. Unless there is some reason that you DON'T want to have sex with them again the assumption is that you want to. Isn't that why you met them in the first place? Don't be too upset if they tell you they aren't interested or ignore your emails. Even if everybody seemed to have a great time you can't get inside their heads and it doesn't mean that there was anything wrong with you.