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ktimephoenix · 06-30-2008, 09:35 AM

We finally did it. not that we were in a rush, but we found a couple that we clicked with (the rest of the story will be in our first time thread).

anyway, after the swap, everyone seemed pretty happy, even though i had to go straight from their house to work...

It was their first time for a full swap, and it was ours too. we have their contact details, and were wondering if we should contact them again. not to try for sex again, more to see if they're alright... no that doesn't sound right... i can't think of the words.

i guess we don't want to be the couple equivelent of the guy who never calls after a one night stand. we want to open the avenue of communication in case they want or need to talk, considering it was their first time too. and it was the Females first time with another woman (Mrs P gave her a GOOD taste of that too

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we don't want to appear like we're clingy, or just after another swap with them. we know some couples want the whole anonymous stranger thing.

i guess because it's our first time, we don't know what sort of contact afterwards is innapropriate, or whether we should contact at all.

06-30-2008, 09:35 AM	#1 (permalink)
ktimephoenix Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 209 Location: Adelaide Australia Status: Couple	What to do after the first full swap? We finally did it. not that we were in a rush, but we found a couple that we clicked with (the rest of the story will be in our first time thread). anyway, after the swap, everyone seemed pretty happy, even though i had to go straight from their house to work... It was their first time for a full swap, and it was ours too. we have their contact details, and were wondering if we should contact them again. not to try for sex again, more to see if they're alright... no that doesn't sound right... i can't think of the words. i guess we don't want to be the couple equivelent of the guy who never calls after a one night stand. we want to open the avenue of communication in case they want or need to talk, considering it was their first time too. and it was the Females first time with another woman (Mrs P gave her a GOOD taste of that too ) we don't want to appear like we're clingy, or just after another swap with them. we know some couples want the whole anonymous stranger thing. i guess because it's our first time, we don't know what sort of contact afterwards is innapropriate, or whether we should contact at all.