Re: Fairness in swinging and in sex.... I guess that would all depend on what you call fair.
We don't look at fair as one or the other has to have another partner to be fair. Each has to enjoy their self and what they are doing though to be fair.
If Laura parties with all the guys at the club in one night and has a good time I tend to also have a good time. Never been let down yet.
I guess some would say it is not fair because I did not get to party with all the women at the club that night also. We never look at it that way.
We do know many that feel it is not fair if they don't get as much "strange" as their spouse does. Just never worked that way with us though.
It is all about what we do, not who we do that makes this work for us.
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