Re: Fairness in swinging and in sex.... Most of the responses have focused on equal Os... but another aspect that hasn't really been hit on much is how fairness relates to swinging.
Both play or none play? The idea that a MFM threesome may not be fair to the husband, since the wife is getting to have sex with someone else but he isn't. Or couples who only have FMF because the husband is insecure about the wife being with other men, is that still perfectly fair since both partners are getting to be with the woman (even if the female partner would like to be with other men as well?) |