In regards to the thread , Can there be "fairness" in swinging?. Sure we work on taking care, that our partners needs are taken care of. Does everything come out equal ? Not all the times. Sometimes one of us gets more that the other, if we look at it like that. But, (in time) it becomes equal again
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We never started out with, I get to do this and you get to do that in return for fairness sake. I don't think we ever talked like that about any of that in the beginning. We played with couples, everyone is getting their fair share. Then as we progressed Mrs.fun was getting more MFM's.. That certainly wasn't unfair. After all, it was me in the beginning, that wanted us to do that. We just didn't realize how much she was going to enjoy it also. Everything seemed fair enough all to this point.
Then looking back over the last year. I have been getting more FMF's than anything. Can't complain about that being unfair. She is bi and getting it just as good as I am. Last night we hooked up on the spur of the moment MFM again. Not to even the score card, but just opportunity and convience came its way
I don't know, I think I tried to make a score card out for fairness....
Ripppp...I just threw it in the trash....Mrs fun just said, It doesn't work for us
