Re: Fairness in swinging and in sex.... We don't really keep score with stuff like that. In our personal sex life, if I don't have a big "O", it's not the end of the world. I don't have to "O" to have good sex.
If I give Dave oral, it's all good. I know he loves the way I do oral, so it's all good. If it's not reciprocated, it's still good. Sometimes, I get too antsy anyway and I don't give him a chance to give me oral.
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