I was just reading through this old thread:
Can there be "fairness" in swinging?
and it got me thinking a bit about fairness overall in both swinging and in our personal sex lives. How do you feel? Do you make an effort to make sure things are "fair"? in how you approach swinging. Or do you feel as another person said in that thread that:
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If either of us are gratified we both win.
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And what about in your sex life? Does one of you feel that it's unfair if one of you gets off and the other doesn't? Or if one of you gives oral or manual stimulation without getting anything in return?