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Old 06-29-2008, 11:52 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Default Re: Who does not go to lifestyle clubs and why?

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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
We like clubs (off and on-premise) for initially meeting people. Sometimes we do play there when we first meet people, sometimes we play there with people we've already met. For us we have found that a club atmosphere is a good way to get an initial feel for people, is it a great place to really get to know people? not so much. But, if we find that we like them in the club atmosphere then it's typically worthwhile to meet them again in a quieter atmosphere. (edit by iapr).....personally I've met many of my best friends initially at a bar or club before getting to know them outside.
I agree with this totally. Clubs are a good place to meet people in a no expections and sexually charged atmosphere but are not necessarily a good place to get to know them well or in the case of off-premise, a good place to actually play.

I think a good analogy to a club is those little booths they have on game shows where there is like $1000 in $1 bills swirling around in the booth and the person has 1 minute to go in and grab as many dollar bills as they can.
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