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How soon is the wedding ?

I see you know about yourself and even acknowledge your mixed emotions. But, I don't see you posting about her feelings. Her weight is perhaps a small step to overcome.

What will happen if and when you do ask her to get involved with the lifestyle. She says she wants to fuck you and another man at the same time. And likes is.... Allot! It does happen.

Or after you join and find out its her that will be making allot of the decisions about who you get to fuck ? What happens when you have someone you are really attracted to and she says "Nope, not her, sorry. I just don't like her she gives me a bad vibe"

I think you need to consider what you may be willing to give. Your asking for advice on the terms of needing more pussy. Don't overlook the fact that she may have desires you are not aware of.... Be prepared to answer her every question about how you feel. Then be prepared for the shocks she may not have told you yet, about herself.

You need to have an honest relationship that you can each be willing to speak freely about your sexuality, without judgments, before bringing this up ! Understanding that no means no on actions... not your thought about sexual fantasies.

Your main question is how to bring this up to her ?

Be yourself, just say " Honey, we need to talk about my sexuality before the wedding, there are some things you don't know about how I feel.... and you should know "

There are alternatives.