[bryanlee]

My opinion for what it's worth is that not only will you need, but this lifestyle will demand that your relationship have a rock solid foundation, trust and communication among other things.

I make no attempts to judge your relationship, but from what you have written it would seem that you guys may not be in a position to make the best of this lifestyle.

I would also say that you should be as honest with yourself as you have been with us. Your wants and desires are not going to just go away. They are in fact just going to become stronger. If your mate cannot meet all of your needs both emotionally and sexually then you are not going to fill that hole with this lifestyle.

I hope what i said makes sense. Good luck to you in everything.

Bryan & Sharon