[bryanlee]

You know it's funny because I was always the more posessive one (if you can say that) in our relationship. I was also the one who initially brought up the discussion about us bringing another into our bedroom/life.

The first time i brought it up she was into it and after a little discussion i let some irrational fears get the best of me and i soon after changed my mind. She, being the wonderful and understanding person she is, said that ok and never brought it up again until I finally did.

Since then we have become more close than we ever dreamed of. Early on in our relationship i had some trust issues stemming from a previous mariage where i was lied to and cheated on for a long time before i found out. We could not be a closer, more trusting and loving couple now. I think we owe every bit of it to the honest and open communication, trust and mutual respect we have gained from this lifestyle.

If you both decide this is for you then i think you will find it can do amazing things for your relationship.

Bryan & Sharon