[Hot Raleigh Cpl]

While we have nothing against clubs, we don't go to many. Several reasons.

First, we seldom meet people to play with at clubs. Lots of socializing, some flirting (or cock teasing), some people dancing, but -- even at on-premises clubs -- little sex, which is what we swing for.

Second, some of the clubs we know seem clique-ish. There seem to be several groups of regulars who stay together, and aren't welcoming of newcomers and outsiders. We understand folks wanting to hang out with their friends, but it makes it difficult for newcomers to have anything happen. Strange compared to some clubs I visited in the early '80s. In those, every newcomer was considered "fresh meat" and pounced on. You never went home empty-handed. Not sure what's changed.

So while we don't really have anything against them, we're less successful finding playmates at clubs than through other avenues. Since we have so little time to play, L and I prefer to use that time where we have better chances of getting lucky.

We haven't given up on clubs. There are several we know of that we want to visit (hint:Vegas) , and just haven't made it yet.

S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl