mosmis84 - great post! I'm a single, sane female. I had a threesome with friends who have since moved away. Totally VANILLA at the time. It was a great experience. My friend and his long-time gf swing, and told me to try it since I missed that kind of sexual encounter in my life. It's actually pretty hard as a single female. I actually get hit on by couples more in a "vanilla" night club than responses to my ad on a site. I've yet to try a swinger club. That might be better, just have not tried it yet. Guess my advice to couples would be to try the "vanilla" girl. Many of us are experimental
, and, I actually thought swinging was just for couples.