Re: First Threesome IMO a single female, it is extremely important that the other female is comfortable with the whole situation. Laying out boundaries beforehand with all involved is a must. And, there does have to be chemistry for all involved. The "elusive" single female is not as hard to find as you may think. I'm fairly new to the lifestyle, but what I've encountered is that many couples stay away from that because of conflicts that arise. You might try a soft swap with another couple first. I had a horrific experience with a couple that invited me in, only to have the female flip out on me down the road because the guy wanted less boundaries. My suggestion is to just be honest and open about it all. |