The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Who does not go to lifestyle clubs and why?

starryeyes · 06-28-2008, 08:15 PM

1. Do you not go to clubs because you had a previous bad experience?
No we haven't been to any clubs. Our preference has been one on one play.

2. Do you not go because you have had good success through other means and just have not had any reason to go?
We believe that sums it up. However its not to say that there aren't some really good people and people that we would be attracted to, we just haven't tried the club scene.

3. Are you or your partner intimidated or afraid to to go to a club?
Not intimidated just extremely cautious we guess.

4. Do you think that clubs are just for the "hardcores" or that you do not think you are a "real swinger" and do not belong in a club?
No not really on both accounts.

5. Are you not a "bar person" and don't like the smoke, noise, competition, chaos etc etc?
We enjoy the bars from time to time. No smoking ordinance here... wooo hooo!!!!

6. Are you someone that does not like crowds or feel that a club scene is not personal or intimate enough?
We enjoy crowds (bars) from time to time we also enjoy the intimate time spent with one other couple.

06-28-2008, 08:15 PM	#15 (permalink)
starryeyes Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 56 Location: El Paso, TX Status: Couple SLS Name:starryeyes	Re: Who does not go to lifestyle clubs and why? 1. Do you not go to clubs because you had a previous bad experience? No we haven't been to any clubs. Our preference has been one on one play. 2. Do you not go because you have had good success through other means and just have not had any reason to go? We believe that sums it up. However its not to say that there aren't some really good people and people that we would be attracted to, we just haven't tried the club scene. 3. Are you or your partner intimidated or afraid to to go to a club? Not intimidated just extremely cautious we guess. 4. Do you think that clubs are just for the "hardcores" or that you do not think you are a "real swinger" and do not belong in a club? No not really on both accounts. 5. Are you not a "bar person" and don't like the smoke, noise, competition, chaos etc etc? We enjoy the bars from time to time. No smoking ordinance here... wooo hooo!!!! 6. Are you someone that does not like crowds or feel that a club scene is not personal or intimate enough? We enjoy crowds (bars) from time to time we also enjoy the intimate time spent with one other couple.