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Originally Posted by arvcpl  That's not necessarily true at all. We like to hit the clubs cause it's fun but we are not superficial people and we enjoy getting to know people and appreciate what they have to offer just as much as the next person. Just because someone likes clubs does not make them a ditz or any less of a personal person. While we do like to go to clubs we also like quiet and person gatherings to for exactly the same reasons you have stated. We have friends that go to clubs and we have friends that don't and we appreciate them all for their own unique traits. |
Have to "ditto" that. We like clubs (off and on-premise) for initially meeting people. Sometimes we do play there when we first meet people, sometimes we play there with people we've already met. For us we have found that a club atmosphere is a good way to get an initial feel for people, is it a great place to really get to know people? not so much. But, if we find that we like them in the club atmosphere then it's typically worthwhile to meet them again in a quieter atmosphere. Then again we are the type that typically like dance clubs and we always have. When we dated when we were young we often went out dancing together and still do, and personally I've met many of my best friends initially at a bar or club before getting to know them outside.