[olycouple]

This is one of my major concerns, too. As a newbie who is currently soft swing only...oral is the only type of "sex" I'm willing to have with anyone other than my mate. Ironically, it's almost more dangerous because I'm assuming most people choose not to use condoms during oral sex (though many do during intercourse)...and well, I don't know how a woman could manage to "cover anything" during cunnilingus (I've heard of female condoms but I have no idea what they actually look like or how they work). I've also read on this board that there are some very thin condoms that may be a possibility for BJs. I guess that would probably be the only safe way to conduct oral sex. I personally can't imagine giving head through a condom...the sensations just aren't the same for either partner. Of course, I haven't tried those extra thin condoms. I guess I'd say, only play with those you trust. Sucks, I know, but...it's the safest way to go. But, then, as many say on this board...there's a certain amount of risk in everything, how much are you willing to accept?