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Originally Posted by 2insandiego4u 
It sounds to us like there might simply be a sexual mismatch here....You have to decide how important this is and accept it, or move on and find someone more sexually compatible.
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This is a very important point that I'd like to address.
I feel finding a mate who is sexually compatible is very important. Sexual compatibility should be at the top of the list when deciding on who you're going to marry and - hopefully - spend the rest of your life with.
I think too many couples downplay the sexual match and instead focus on how one fills in the blanks for the other: one's a good cook, the other isn't, one's a great organizer, the other is a slob, one's patient and calm, the other is impatient and quick to react. You get the picture. Sometimes you can be so comfortable with someone that you think they must "be the one" for you, and that's all you focus on.
As others have said, look inside yourself and make sure you know who you are and what you'll need sexually in the years to come. You are young and there are likely other women who could make you as happy as the woman you're now so comfortable with,
except these new women will also match your sexual drive and openess to explore sex with others.
Sometimes your love for someone is greatest when you know it's time to say goodbye.
LM