I just made 1000th post saying that the best place to meet real swingers is at swingers clubs and got to thinking (always a dangerous thing
) that maybe I need to step back and get a different perspective and hear from the folks that do not go to clubs.
If you do not like to go to LS clubs or scheduled LS meet/greets I would like to hear your thoughts and feelings as to why you do not like to go. If you prefer to only meet people privately I would like to hear what advantages and disadvantages you see in that methodology.
I would especially like to hear from folks that may be a little bit intrigued or interested in going to a club but haven't been able to overcome your (or your partner's) hesitancy in doing so.
My intent is NOT for this to turn into a clubs vs private meets debate and it is also not my intent to try and convince anyone that has not been to a club to go to one. Rather, I am just wanting to hear some thoughtfull and personal discussion from those who's practices and opinions are different from my own.
If you are not a club or meet/greet goer, please share your reasons and rationales and thoughts.