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Old 06-26-2008, 10:43 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by RedHeaded
The only concern I have about this is more with his protective nature that is also a little possessive (as am I).
I found it odd considering that he was the one that mentioned swinging so it's put me in a unique position.
Gator brought up the idea of swinging and he is more protective rather than possessive. Which was a help for me. I knew he'd be there to take care of me. He wouldn't let any thing bad happen. I trusted him then and now to do that if needed. I can take care of myself most of the time but its nice to know I don't have to. Now, I have two protective husbands.

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You are not alone, all successful swingers that I have ever met, place our partners and our own relationships above and beyond everything and everyone in life. We are not all open to everything. Thats why we have boundaries, limits and rules.
This is so true for any that I've met.

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