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Originally Posted by N&G  This seems to be an issue between the two women. Why are you mediating? By getting in the middle you become part of the problem. Let them sort it out themselves.
It appears that your gf and you need to discuss what is sexually acceptable and what is not. Unless there was a previous agreement not to play unless you were all together you technically didn't break any rules but you know not to do it again. Just because she is upset doesn't always make it your fault, especially since you had intercourse with your friend multiple times previously and there was plenty of time to set the ground rules. |
well i did mess up even tho there werent any boundaries set i guess for me...i guess when you question something of being wrong i guess you should make sure its not wrong...my gf is kind of over what happend between her friend and i...i told my gf that i wouldnt mess around w/her anymore.
heres the current issue....my GF has really strong feelings for her friend...not the type that shell break up w/me and leave me for her...but more like this strong infatuation that she cant get over...i know her friend likes her too...but she doesnt want any of our friends to find out whats happend. We had a chat last nite the 3 of us...but i feel like nothing got resolved or not a clear solution was made...they both admitted having feelings for each other, but the only thing that was said was for them not to talk as often.
I think what happened is that things might have moved to quickly as well as feelings...the only thing i could think of now is for her friend not to come around as much or fool around either...they both said yesterday they wouldnt fool around anymore with eachother...but have both openly admitted that they still want to...so im just frustrated at the fact that they put themselves through this and i have to hear it.