[theflamekasters]

i would start by going to a club and just talking to othere cpls, and watching what is going on and how it all works. Then play at the club together, if it is on premisie, get comfortable with the situation of the club. Take every thing step by step. Meet a cpl for dinner, hang out, it will be a natural progression. if u have any fears, or reservations dont do it. One of the biggest things we asked other couples is what are your rules. Know your rules, what u are comfortable with before the first time u play. We didnt, big mistake!

The thing about this is you can move at your own pace, and if you try it once, and it isnt for you, you dont have to do it again!!!

Hope this helps