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RedHeaded · 06-26-2008, 05:13 PM

Well, The reason I am here is mainly because my husband opened the door to swinging and I'm not sure how to take it.

We have been married for a few years and we were talking about our likes and dislikes as we try to learn more and more about each others desires and such, when he said that he has had a fantasy about me being with another man while he was there.
I'm not sure if he just wanted to watch or be active as we're still in the beginning stages of talking about it.
Anyway. he said he found this site and that it would probably be good for both of us to talk to people and see what is really out there.
So I made the account and we'll see what it's all about.

I've never really thought about anyone else but him since we've been together. He's been an amazing husband and lover. He's very supportive and has stood by me through thick and thin.
The only concern I have about this is more with his protective nature that is also a little possessive (as am I).
I found it odd considering that he was the one that mentioned swinging so it's put me in a unique position.
On the one hand there is that little bit of excitement and on the other there is the fear that it may backfire on our relationship.
I'm sure those fears are common. Anyone have any advice?

06-26-2008, 05:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
RedHeaded Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 2 Location: DFW Area Status: Couple	He opened the door... Well, The reason I am here is mainly because my husband opened the door to swinging and I'm not sure how to take it. We have been married for a few years and we were talking about our likes and dislikes as we try to learn more and more about each others desires and such, when he said that he has had a fantasy about me being with another man while he was there. I'm not sure if he just wanted to watch or be active as we're still in the beginning stages of talking about it. Anyway. he said he found this site and that it would probably be good for both of us to talk to people and see what is really out there. So I made the account and we'll see what it's all about. I've never really thought about anyone else but him since we've been together. He's been an amazing husband and lover. He's very supportive and has stood by me through thick and thin. The only concern I have about this is more with his protective nature that is also a little possessive (as am I). I found it odd considering that he was the one that mentioned swinging so it's put me in a unique position. On the one hand there is that little bit of excitement and on the other there is the fear that it may backfire on our relationship. I'm sure those fears are common. Anyone have any advice?