[JustMrJ]

I'd like to ask a couple of things before I answer...

1. Did you and the other lady try and hide the fact that you had intercourse while she slept?

2. When you say you 'went down on her and brought her into play' do you mean she already knew you two were naked or fooling around a bit? This goes back to question one slightly.

3. Overall, what was the level of communication of this play triangle at the time of the incident?

Okay... until those are answered, I'll hold my opinions...