 Re: Dealing with the male swingers curse ED.
I can't speak to the physiological aspect, but I have definitely encountered the mental mind-fuck that makes you go soft. Sometimes you are so anxious, or so uncomfortable in a situation, that nothing is going to work. It brings frustration and then you enter a negative feedback loop. Good luck recovering from that one.
The longer my wife and I have participated in the lifestyle, the easier it has become to just accept the situation, relax, and let the good times roll so to speak.
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