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STi623 · 06-25-2008, 10:34 PM

okay well heres the problem...about 3 1/2 months ago my gf of 5 years and I messed around w/a friend of hers after coming back from a bar...i had already sinced it coming even tho i didnt believe it would happen...by the way this was our first time having a threesome eventho we didnt have intercourse.

we thought it was just a one time deal after that nite...but things continued to escalate w/her friend and my gf has slept over at her house and they fulled around (which i dont mind at all) also we recently had intercourse about a month ago and continued several times after that until about a week ago. I have to mention that this friend was a virgin and has never had a BF. None of our other friends know about what has happend either so its hard for the girls to act like themselves around their female friends.

After coming back from a club about a week ago my GF was drunk and passed out to sleep...and during the middle of the nite her friend and I ended up havin sex while my gf slept (yes i already know i F'd myself by doing that and i shouldnt have done it) during that time my gf woke up and ended up joining us or more like we went down on her and brought her in to play...

well that morning i could tell my gf was bothered and she asked me if we had sex (friend and I) and i admitted yes...she was bothered by what had happend and said she didnt want this to continue with her friend...so we all agreed that there wouldnt be anymore sleepovers at my house.

but my GF has grown feelings over her friend and her friend over her as well...but they do not want to continue...i find them growing frustrated w/each other...even tho they have both admitted that they like each other.

I just dont want this to get messier than what it already is...i want them to remain friends (especially cause they work together w/their friends)

my gf is really emotional and always wants an answer for her questions...her friend is really quite and keeps to herself doesnt really talk about her emotions or how she feels except for the times i recently asked her...what should we do???

should we still hang out? or should my gf just stop talking to her? the problem with this is that my gf wants to keep in touch with her and gets all hurt when her friend doesnt call...i dont want to be mediating all the time

any help would be appreciated...

06-25-2008, 10:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
STi623 Registered Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 8 Location: Los Angeles Status: Couple	GF getting attached to female friend okay well heres the problem...about 3 1/2 months ago my gf of 5 years and I messed around w/a friend of hers after coming back from a bar...i had already sinced it coming even tho i didnt believe it would happen...by the way this was our first time having a threesome eventho we didnt have intercourse. we thought it was just a one time deal after that nite...but things continued to escalate w/her friend and my gf has slept over at her house and they fulled around (which i dont mind at all) also we recently had intercourse about a month ago and continued several times after that until about a week ago. I have to mention that this friend was a virgin and has never had a BF. None of our other friends know about what has happend either so its hard for the girls to act like themselves around their female friends. After coming back from a club about a week ago my GF was drunk and passed out to sleep...and during the middle of the nite her friend and I ended up havin sex while my gf slept (yes i already know i F'd myself by doing that and i shouldnt have done it) during that time my gf woke up and ended up joining us or more like we went down on her and brought her in to play... well that morning i could tell my gf was bothered and she asked me if we had sex (friend and I) and i admitted yes...she was bothered by what had happend and said she didnt want this to continue with her friend...so we all agreed that there wouldnt be anymore sleepovers at my house. but my GF has grown feelings over her friend and her friend over her as well...but they do not want to continue...i find them growing frustrated w/each other...even tho they have both admitted that they like each other. I just dont want this to get messier than what it already is...i want them to remain friends (especially cause they work together w/their friends) my gf is really emotional and always wants an answer for her questions...her friend is really quite and keeps to herself doesnt really talk about her emotions or how she feels except for the times i recently asked her...what should we do??? should we still hang out? or should my gf just stop talking to her? the problem with this is that my gf wants to keep in touch with her and gets all hurt when her friend doesnt call...i dont want to be mediating all the time any help would be appreciated...