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Originally Posted by olycouple  Okay...I may have just answered my own question...I obviously didn't look closely enough at the list of forums, as I have just found the sexuality issues forum. I think I may find what I'm looking for there.
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Had I done my homework a little more thoroughly on this site before I posted this (as I found the -bi-sexuality- thread in the sexuality issues forum after I posted this questions), I probably would not have posted. Not only has this issue come up on this site time and time again...but the same discussions have been had (apparently, I'm just behind the times). I do appreciate the positive response, however. On other threads, the reaction was, shall I say, negative to say the least. Maybe it's just the way I phrased it that avoided bristling hairs?
I'm not really sure about this whole continuum of sexuality. If I had to label myself I'd say I'm straight. Right now. I've only kissed two girls in my whole life, and I didn't like it either time. But, the fantasy pops up from time to time...esp. with the right girl. I've had major crushes on two women since college. And they were heavy crushes that I wish I'd had the opportunity to persue. But, I wouldn't consider myself bi...not yet, at least. Even if I got a hold of a girl I was totally into, I don't think I'd consider myself bi. I'm just sexual, I guess...and curious as hell about all kinds of sexual possibilities. It's like food for me. There are a lot of foods I haven't tried yet. There will be some I like and continue to eat forever, and there are some I will try and spit out before I swallow. I guess that says a lot about my repulsion about labels. I like sex with my husband. No, I love it! But can I say with all assurance that I like sex with men? That might imply "all" men to some. If that were the case, I wouldn't be able to leave my house and I wouldn't be able to walk. I'm hot for who I'm hot for. But, I do understand that some people are a little more exclusive about who gets in their pants. And that's okay, too.
