[VegasLee]

If you take a look around this forums you will see a few hundred posts dealing with TO MUCH DRAMA IN THE LIFESTYLE.

You have more then your fair share of it here.

Personally, we would cut off all this nonsense, move on and find people we could have some fun with in Swinging.

If you and your husband have rules about all email and phone calls being done only when you are both there then that is the way it has to be. If your husband is not following that rule then you and him need to talk. The other couple should not and does not have any right to say anything about the rules that you and your husband follow.

As soon as the She said, he said, she said nonsense started I would have been out of there.

Swinging is about having some fun that is within the bounds of your only real relationship. I don't see anything fun at what is going on in your post at all.

Someone needs to stand up and be the adult and knock off the jr. high games.

No more phone calls, e-mails between her, her, him, him or anyone else.

Get out and meet some fun people that you can get along with without turning it in to a day time talk show. You and your husband does not need this nonsense at all. If you and him can't agree then stop the swinging and go on with life. You say you have the experience in the Lifestyle yet you are talking part in this soap drama here. You know better so end it.

Good Luck to you.