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Originally Posted by good times

We know a few bi-males in the lifestyle, and it may be true that were it more accepted their might be a few more willing to admit that they are bi, or at least bi-curious. But in reality, their are very few bi-males, and as long as that is the case I doubt if we will see much more acceptance of bi-male activity. I would also argue that, from our experience, their are a lot less bi-females than it would appear.

The way it appears to me is that their are a lot of guys that get really turned on by girl/girl sex, and I think this has a dramatic effect on the amount of women you see on the ad sites listed as bi or bi-curious. In other words, they are not really bi or bi-curious, but their husbands are really into it so they play along. On the other side of that coin, very few women I have met get sexually excited about seeing guy/guy sex. So I think a higher proportion of the guys you see listed as bi, actually are, compared to the girls listed as such.

As far as the theory of everybody being a little bit bi goes, I think that is total BS. I for one, and most every male I know, have absolutely zero sexual desires for other males. Does that mean we are phobic to the point of fearing incidental contact with other guys? Absolutely not, as long as it is unintentional and happens in the process of having sex with a woman, we don't even notice it or give it a second thought most of the time.

I have to agree with pretty much all of this, so that sort of eliminates what I was going to say in this thread.