[VegasLee]

In all honesty if you want to be safe, get tested now. Then don't ever have sex with anyone besides your spouse if your spouse also tested negative for every STD there is known to man.

There are many people that have been tested, with good results and they pass on STD's every time they play. They are carriers, they show no symptoms at all.

I have never told anyone they should not be tested but I also remind them that those tests over time mean nothing at all.

Each time you have sex with someone you are having sex with everyone they have ever had sex with at the same time.

I don't care how well you know someone, you will never know the truth about who they have had sex with in their lifetime.

Don't ever let tests lead you into a sense of security in any way.

Yes, I have been lucky and honestly, I have not wore a condom more then six times in my life.

Julie always makes an excellent point, many times things will not show up on a test, sometimes for months, sometimes for years yet you are still carrying the STD with you and could be passing it along each and every time you play with someone else. You don't know it at the time and either do the people you are playing with.

You want to be 100% safe, keep it in your pants and only have sex with your wife after she has also been tested every six months for a few years.

There are no guarantees in life, you have to decide what your life is worth to you and what you are willing to do it in. Tomorrow on your way to work you might get hit by a bus. Then again, you might not.