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Its funny that you should mention the whole commttiment issue and the desire to sow the wild oats. First off I have done my fair share of sowing. And this issue actually has come up and been discussed in our relationship. We have taken breaks to cool down the relationship and try to take things slowly primarily because of my desire to have sex with other women. For a period of six monthsto a year it seemed like every other month I wanted to take a break and the reason was I had someone I wanted to have sex with.The result of all of these discussions and trial breaks is that every single time I have come back to her and realized that she is what I want above all else. If it is a choice between a completely mongamous relationship with her or not having her in my life at all I will chose the monogamy any day of the week, but I guess what I am doing here is to see if there is not more than just those two options. MAybe my problem is I just want to have my cake and eat it too, but I would always hate myself if I didn't at least explore the possibilities of any alternative choices other than the ones she has presented me. Hopefully all this will make sense and you will all have some feedback for me, if not then feel free to ask questions. And for the record, I never once cheated on her.